Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Cookin' Up Some Love....

I took an unplanned and unexpected vacation day today. Hell, the opportunity arose, and I grabbed it. So I spent the day alternating between scrubbing the accumulated crud off my floors and working on case studies for my nutrition course. Oh, and I cooked a bit.


Some days I cook with blogging in mind, carefully pondering the ratio of spices and choosing ingredients that other folks would be likely to have in their cupboards. Sometimes I cook with the future in mind, whipping up dishes that will be good for work lunches and freeze well for busy days down the road.


Today, I cooked for the sheer love of cooking, tossing ingredients around willy-nilly, splashing and stirring with wild abandon. The heck with writing anything down! I had the music playing loud and clouds of flour hung in the air as I danced around the kitchen in a steamy frenzy of deliciousness.


And when the dust settled, I had some yummy bread made with Grape-Nut flakes. This bread is soooo tender, I might not be able to wait for breakfast to have some peanut butter toast.



I also came up with some vegetable soup with some new noodles I found...they sure are yummy, but they look like a bad case of pinworms...

For supper, since I was home on a week day, was a bit more extravagant that an average day. I made up some chicken style seitan, breaded it with panko and spices and fried it. On the side, we had sour cream whipped potatoes, gravy and a mixture of root vegetables. In short, one of our favourite "special" weekend dinners, except it was a Tuesday. Nothing new or special, so I skipped the photo.

We had another boy at the table for supper, a friend of my son's. He helped himself to a little bit of everything, even the seitan, (despite the fact that this kid's father is such a virulent meat-eater that he likely eats vegans for breakfast.) About three minutes into the meal, the kid lays down his fork and looks at me. "Wow." he says to me. "Wow."

"What's wrong?", says I. "Is there something you don't like?"

"No way," says the kid. "It's just that this is so good. We don't get good stuff like this at home. We get beans and hot dogs and Kraft Dinner."

All I could think of it, what a sin. What kind of a life is that, when all you eat is cheap, processed crap? Is that any way to feed a growing child? And it's not even the fact that the food is nutrientless crap that bothers me about this comment. Food is not just about calories in, it's about getting closer to the ultimate source that nourishes you, having a relationship with food, a healthy appreciation for what food can do for you. A good, healthy, home-cooked meal does more than feed the body, it feeds the soul. It says to everyone at the table, Hey! I appreciate you. I love you enough to take the time to nourish you, to honour you with my stirring and chopping and dicing, to delight your tastebuds with the gift of my time. Who doesn't leave the table after that kind of a meal feeling refreshed in more ways than just the physical?

The lesson here, folks, is that you should get your ass in the kitchen once in a while and cook something from scratch. You're cheating yourself, and those you love, if you don't.

That's all for me today. Hugs and kisses, peeps!

9 comments:

Virginia said...

you are exactly right! great post! i show my family that i love them EVERY DAY by making nutritious, healthy food...my children are very young (2 and 3) but i hope that one day they will appreciate it.

Jeni Treehugger said...

That is sooo true and you put it so lovely!

heather said...

I agree totally! Cooking does nourish more than just the body.

Courtney said...

It sounds like you had a good and productive day off...I love days like that! At the end, you feel like you have accomplished so much and it feels sooooo good :o)

Your dinner sounds fabulous--no wonder the kid liked it!

Courtney

Agnes said...

Whenever my girls complain, refuse to eat, or pick at their food, my husband plays the guilt trip card. "Your mother worked hard to cook that food for you. You should appreciate the wonderful meals she makes for you. When you refuse to eat the food your mother makes for you, you make her feel bad. Yadda. Yadda. Yadda." Then I feel guilty because he tries to make them feel guilty. This never would have happened if I'd just served ramen or peanut butter sandwiches. Insanity, I tell ya...

Amey said...

i HEAR you.
my sweet beloved 8 year old nephew eats only soda pop and fast food with his parents. It makes me sick. When he comes over to my house, he'll pretty much only eat spaghetti with red sauce or strawberries. He's even scared of fruits like nectarines or cherries, just because he's never had them.

It's so sad.

Good for you for showing that sweet little boy the joys of a lovingly prepared & nutritious meal.

Destiny's Vegan Kitchen said...

That is such a sweet story about your son's friend. Maybe he'll grow up to be a veg chef or something now? I feel horrible for kids who are never exposed to real food. It's nutritional neglect. :o(

eatincalgary said...

yummy recipe, i'll add you to my blogroll. maybe you want to try the celery, apple & carrot salad i just posted!

Carrie™ said...

Poor kid! KD & hot dogs? That's a broke university student's diet, not a growing boy's. My mom ALWAYS cooked. We almost never ate out at restaurants. And we had good, nutritious meals. I remember a family who's house backed onto ours. I sometimes played with the daughter. They were always eating things like fried bologna & hamburger helper. The whole family had grey-coloured skin. Hmm....they were a little odd. Maybe they were aliens!